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Resilience isn’t about being unbreakable—it’s about rebuilding yourself, no matter how hard life hits. Embrace your fears, nurture your strengths, and cultivate connections. Every challenge is a chance to rise stronger.

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Hello there! It’s great to have you join us once more for today’s session. We hope you’re feeling tuned into your mind and body, and if not, that’s perfectly okay—because that’s exactly what these mindful moments are for: to prepare you for whatever the day has in store. Find a comfortable seated position, keep your eyes open, and soften your gaze. Pay attention to your breath, and for the next second, simply allow yourself to be.

Let yourself sink into the calm.

Resilience. We often talk about it as if everyone has an unlimited supply, ready to take on any challenge. But if you’ve faced a major setback before, you know just how incredibly hard it is to bounce back. Sometimes, it’s the hardest thing you’ll ever have to do, depending on what you needed to overcome. Isn’t it frustrating to read about overachievers who seem to conquer every hurdle effortlessly? How do they manage to do so much, while just getting out of bed on tough days can feel like a monumental task?

We hear stories about people working 14-hour days, building businesses, making millions, spending time with their families, and then running marathons at 50. How is that even possible? Why do some people seem unstoppable, while others struggle with the basics? How can some turn their hardships into TED Talks, while others can barely speak about what’s going on with their closest friends?

The Mindset Difference

When we face setbacks, our default response is often a fixed mindset. It’s less work for our brains to compare ourselves to others and blame ourselves for failing. Thoughts like I’m not good enough or They have something I don’t are easy shortcuts because they draw on existing beliefs, rather than tackling the problem head-on. Overcoming these barriers takes conscious effort. Instead of telling yourself, I’ll get through this, try asking yourself, What can I do to get through this?

Resilience isn’t always a given. For some, it comes naturally through genetics or early life experiences, while others have to build it from scratch. But here’s the truth: resilience isn’t about being unbreakable. It’s about being able to put yourself back together, piece by piece, even when it feels like your world is falling apart.

Where Resilience Comes From

While some of it may come from genetics, much of our resilience is shaped by personal history. When you’re a child, you’re naturally more equipped to handle stress because your lack of self-awareness allows you to express your emotions more freely. You’re also more likely to ask for help when you need it. Your focus is on the present moment, not worrying about the consequences.

But what happens when a child faces trauma without a strong support system? They might grow up learning to rely solely on themselves. Fierce independence can build resilience, but it can also isolate you, creating a sense of strength built on sand. Alternatively, if you’ve been sheltered your whole life, facing a major blow as an adult can feel like the end of the world.

By your twenties, your resilience level can often be predicted based on what you’ve been through and how much support you’ve received. If you’ve never had to deal with anything too tough, your first encounter with real adversity might seem insurmountable. And if you’ve been through hardship alone, you may lean on withdrawal and isolation instead of reaching out for help.

Barriers to Resilience

Isolation, low self-esteem, and a victim mentality are the biggest barriers to true resilience. Sometimes, these beliefs are inherited from well-meaning family members who tried to shield us from failure by blaming our struggles on external factors: You’re not tall enough, that’s why you’re bad at sports, or You have too much energy; that’s why you can’t focus. As we grow older, these stories manifest into a victim mindset, where we begin to see every challenge as something out of our control.

The irony is that true resilience starts with a belief that you are in control—at least of how you choose to respond. Building resilience begins when you challenge your fears, connect with others, and consciously work on your self-esteem. And while you can’t always control the circumstances you face, you can control how you prepare for them.

Turning Fear into Action

Today, we want to challenge you. Write down your biggest fear and ask yourself: How can I face this fear head-on? For example, if public speaking terrifies you (which, by the way, surveys show is scarier than death for many people), consider attending an open mic night or joining a Toastmasters group. It’s terrifying, yes. But it’s also an incredibly effective way to build resilience and self-esteem.

The more you lean into your fears, the more they lose their power over you. These activities may seem daunting, but they’re worth it. Because more often than not, when you face what you fear, you realize it wasn’t as bad as you imagined. You discover a strength you didn’t know you had.

Building a Resilient Mindset

Resilience is built long before life throws you a curveball. It’s strengthened through every small victory, every decision to keep going, and every risk you take outside of your comfort zone. So, start building it now, in moments of calm, so when the inevitable storm comes, you’re ready to weather it.

Challenge yourself to step outside of your comfort zone. Build connections. Cultivate a hobby that brings you joy and pride. By nurturing your strengths when things are going well, you’ll be far better equipped to tap into that power when life gets tough.

Resilience isn’t about never falling—it’s about rising each time you do. Take this moment to stand tall, breathe deeply, and know that with every inhale, you’re filling yourself with the strength to face whatever lies ahead. Exhale, letting go of doubts and fears.

Until next time, keep pushing forward, and remember: each setback is just a setup for your next rise.

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