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Use the Right Words: The Power of Emotional Vocabulary

We’re thrilled that you’re showing up for yourself every day and investing in your personal growth. Today’s session is all about mastering one of the most important yet often overlooked skills in self-development: building an emotional vocabulary. By the end of this session, you’ll understand just how powerful language can be when it comes to managing emotions, expressing yourself, and ultimately, improving your relationships with others.

Many people go through life carrying physical and emotional tension without even realizing it. Often, these parts of us are crying out for healing, care, attention, and love. But here’s the thing: without the right words, it’s almost impossible to identify, express, and ultimately release these emotions. This brings us to today’s focus: understanding and expanding your emotional vocabulary.

The Power of Language: Understanding Our Emotions

When we talk about emotions, we rarely think about the words we use to describe them. But we should. The renowned philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein once said, “The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.” It’s a profound truth because, without language, what do we have but a mess of misunderstood sensations and unexplored reactions?

When we lack the right words to express our emotions, it’s like trying to navigate through a fog. We can feel the emotions stirring within us—anger, sadness, joy, anxiety—but without language, we can’t label them. This makes it incredibly difficult to communicate our needs and feelings to those around us, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance. As a result, our relationships—both with others and with ourselves—begin to deteriorate over time.

Language: The Portal to Connection and Healing

Brené Brown, in her book Atlas of the Heart, describes language as the portal to meaning-making, connection, healing, learning, and self-awareness. Yet, it’s something society rarely considers. Imagine this scenario:

One day, you sneeze, and suddenly, a sharp pain shoots down your neck and into your shoulder. The pain is unbearable, and after a few agonizing days, you finally visit a doctor. But when it’s time to describe your pain, you can’t find the words. The doctor is right in front of you, ready to help, but you’re unable to communicate what you’re feeling. Your mind races as you try to find the right words, but the more you struggle, the more helpless you feel. Without the right words, the pain remains a mystery.

This is the same struggle many face with emotional pain. When we can’t articulate what we’re feeling, those emotions bubble up inside, often turning into frustration or anger that spills over onto others. Sometimes, the people we care about most end up on the receiving end of our misunderstood emotions. It’s especially true for children who are still learning how to handle their own feelings. They watch us and learn from our reactions, mirroring our behavior as they try to make sense of their own emotions.

Taking Back Control: The Power of Naming Emotions

Without a way to name and express emotions, they control us. But by naming them, you take that power back. Once you can label what you’re feeling, you become the one in control. You can understand, process, and choose how to respond, instead of being overwhelmed by a surge of unidentifiable sensations.

Think of it this way: identifying your emotions is like turning on a light in a dark room. Suddenly, you can see everything clearly, and the confusion vanishes. When you develop an emotional vocabulary, you’re equipping yourself with a toolkit that helps you navigate the ups and downs of life more effectively.

Building an Emotional Vocabulary: A Lifelong Skill

This is where the work begins. Start by thinking about the emotions you’re already familiar with. Write them down. List every feeling you know how to name, whether it’s joy, sadness, anxiety, hope, or frustration. Don’t worry if your list is short—most people can only identify between three to five emotions out of the dozens we experience every day.

But that’s about to change. As you go through your day, pay attention to your emotional reactions to people, situations, and even small moments. When you feel a shift inside—whether it’s a flicker of excitement, a pang of jealousy, or a wave of calm—try to identify it. Give it a name. If you’re up for an extra challenge, write it down. Track the various emotions you experience throughout the day. This small exercise will lead to a major boost in your self-awareness.

Why This Matters: The Difference Between Being Understood and Feeling Lost

Here’s why building this vocabulary is so important: when you can label your emotions, you understand yourself better. When you understand yourself, you can communicate more clearly, set healthier boundaries, and deepen your relationships. You’re no longer a slave to emotions that seem to come out of nowhere. Instead, you become the master of your internal world, guiding your thoughts and reactions with intention and clarity.

This doesn’t mean it will always be easy. Even with the right words, emotions are complex and can sometimes be hard to work through. But there’s a subtle yet massive difference between struggling without the words and struggling with them. Language gives you a framework, a way to organize your thoughts and make sense of what’s happening internally.

Take a Moment: Build Your Emotional Vocabulary Today

Let’s put this into practice. Take a minute right now to jot down the emotions you know. What words do you use to describe your feelings? Joy, frustration, confusion, hope? Write them all down, even if it’s just a handful. Each word is a stepping stone toward a richer understanding of yourself.

If your list is shorter than you expected, that’s okay. This is just the beginning. As you go through your day, keep this exercise in mind. Notice when your mood shifts and try to pinpoint exactly what you’re feeling. Challenge yourself to expand your emotional vocabulary. The more words you learn, the more clarity you’ll gain.

Closing the Session: A Cleansing Breath

You’ve taken an important step today by focusing on your emotions and the words that describe them. Continue building on this awareness, and tomorrow, we’ll dive deeper into understanding how society’s expectations shape our perception of freedom. It’s going to be an enlightening session, and we can’t wait to explore it with you.

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